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3. You and your spouse have agreed to start dating: A final step before you start dating is to make sure that you and your spouse have officially agreed to go this route. Obviously, you would want to avoid a situation whereby one of you had resumed dating while the other one thought that the two of you were not supposed to be dating. Keeping open lines of communication will help avoid any potential misunderstandings.
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